The Shame Is Over!

Please Visit My Other Bloggings...

Thu, 07 Feb 2008 05:35:24 -0800

Well... since I can't cut and paste here, I'll ask that if you are interested in my other relationship bloggings, that you to visit my other site for more from wisdoms vine... www.msmilano.blogspot.com or Love and light to you... ...

Now You Tubing!

Thu, 07 Feb 2008 05:08:03 -0800

Hello lovely people!

Well... I'm still writing book two!... lol... I thought I'd finish in the same record time as book one BUT instead, I'm writing book two AND producing a documentary on child abuse and neglect based off my own recovery story as well as presenting a solid view of what is happening in the world of prevention, intervention and victim recovery by using a panel of organizational leadership. I'm hoping to bring about greater awarness ...

Child Abuse

Sat, 03 Nov 2007 05:56:12 -0700

Greetings One and All...

Please take just three minutes to read this message and forward it on to those you feel would benefit most. I will not give up...

"I'm not stopping to count the casualties, there are companies who get paid to count the casualties. I'm not stopping to make you understand, there is an unlimited amount of resources provided by organizations who are supported to provide just that. Our nation has national campaigns to manage the ...

Book 2...

Thu, 01 Nov 2007 04:34:06 -0700

Greetings all... as you can see by my last post I am completely pumped!... lol... Today, I begin book two of my trilogy. I'm excited to begin and eager to end. I am expected to complete my writing by Feb. 1, 2008. A documentary will be made in the spring on chapters 1-4 of book one to be included in the back of book two.... as was with book two, I will go into hibernation the final 80 days of writing to push the finish. I will notify everyone 2 weeks in advance an ...

I am NOT going away!

Thu, 01 Nov 2007 03:59:23 -0700

"Thought I'd go away? Leave my heart, my passion, my life to be trampled upon? Never! Even in my death I will be heard... just as my sister's silenced voice is heard through me. My children will cry out, and my head stone will scream mercy upon the innocent. I am burying my heart with the little I have. I've met your resistance, now your resistance meets me! Your resistance has sharpened me, prepared me to pick my way through victory. I may be slow ...

What Stops You?

Wed, 31 Oct 2007 07:21:29 -0700

Greetings all...

Been a bit since I've sent out a message... lol... I think I say that often...lol. Any way, I thought I'd leave a message from my many lessons learned in life and hope that it helps you through out your personal journeys as well.

Do you remember the story of the person on the roof top in a flood who prayed to God to save him? Three rescuers went by and shouted out to the man t ...

Count down!

Tue, 09 Oct 2007 20:19:56 -0700

COUNT DOWN! ... till... OCTOBER 20th, When...

Putting things in order...

Thu, 04 Oct 2007 05:36:30 -0700

Hello one and all... each time I come back here seems like so long ago when I was last here! I've missed being here. Just wanted to give a quick up date... I relocated to Savannah GA, where I am in love with life. I've been selling the manuscript copy of my book and the limite ...

It is finished!

Sat, 17 Mar 2007 07:08:27 -0700
Well, yesterday, I sent my book of to the printer in Canada to be printed. I'm so excited! I finished my first book first word to delivery in under 200 days! After 18 years and four attempts at writing this book, IT IS FINISHED! Now... for the fund raising... whewwww.... let me get back to work... ...

Audio Message...

Tue, 06 Mar 2007 07:54:39 -0800
What a day... Eleven days remaining. I've made this audio message for you all ... I hope it encourages you and touches you in a new way today.... this link will take you to my audio message... in all you do, be well... http://www.kekoonpublishing.com/26801.html ...

12 days...

Mon, 05 Mar 2007 09:36:37 -0800

I have twelve days left before submitting this book for print... I'm anxious and longing. How my life will change in 12 days. How many people will I get to love as a result of this book... How many will be touched and moved to better living as a result? These are the things I wonder now in these last days. Once I publish this book, life for me, will never be the same... what a cliche considering, life for me, has never been the same. So, I count the days. ...

Perception: Part One

Sun, 04 Mar 2007 09:38:41 -0800

This article is difficult for me because I have a message that is one hour long on it. So, to put such a major issue into a blog bottle is quite the challenge. Perhaps I will put it on CD for the general public sometime. Here is the close caption version of my take on perception, the mother of all balance.

Perception:

Bible Belt...

Sat, 03 Mar 2007 08:23:42 -0800

Do you wear a belt? Some people who wear a belt use it to abuse children, others do not. Do you? This article is to bring attention to all those who use their bible belts to abuse children. Now, maybe you wear a bible belt and do not beat on the spiritually young and wounded but if you do, this article is for you!

I write and speak to one's total wellness not for on ...

FEET...

Sat, 03 Mar 2007 07:30:38 -0800

Why did I post a pic of my feet to my profile? These feet have brought me through a lot of shit. I realize that battles are won every day as nation is pined up against nation, tribe against tribe. I have fought countless fights as a survivor of childhood assaults. I’ve been wounded by long drawn out battles against starvation, rape, rejection, mental and emotional cruelty. Thus far, I have beaten the medical consequences of such criminal acts, putting the side ef ...

Reasons V/S Excuses

Fri, 02 Mar 2007 16:53:47 -0800

I've been sharing with everyone my understandings and insights about victims and victim abusers. The question was presented to me in an e-mail from a reader, "Do you believe being a victim is an excuse for abusing people?" This article will reveal my belief on this.

The simple answer is no. Ones background does however provide an explanation as to what series of events ...

Sick of

Thu, 01 Mar 2007 18:29:28 -0800

Is there anything we can do to deactivate the holding effects individual traumas have on us? YES! Many of us have heard about "embracing your pains" or "Letting go of your past" I disagree with both of these recovery concepts. I believe they both pacify rather than respectfully address the issu ...

Sick of

Thu, 01 Mar 2007 18:22:35 -0800

I have a wish. I wish people would stop telling other's to let go of the past. What on God's green earth kind of advice is that? The whole "Letting go" phenomenon must come to an end. There is no letting go of the past! To try and convince people to do so is not only self destructive to the victim but to our society as a whole. How do you let go of something that has a hold on you? Let someone grab you by the neck and ...

When Victim Becomes Abuser

Thu, 01 Mar 2007 18:09:58 -0800

The life of a victim has three paths: restoration, self-destruction, and social destruction. Those who develop mental and emotional strength and apply their abilities will restore to a healthier life style managing positive and negative experiences well. These are what we call "former victims", people who have been rehabilitated or reconditioned back into healthier living. These individuals are more likely to thrive in their s ...

Coming out of my Kekoon!

Thu, 01 Mar 2007 17:52:41 -0800

Greetings, I wanted to introduce myself. My name is Ms. Milano. I will be using my blog spot here to post articles I've written about what I am currently doing and to post my recovery messages about childhood maltreatment, neglect, various abuses and sexual assaults. My loyalties lie with struggling victims everwhere. Love and light be with you all.